Helping people plan their own funerals and set out clear funeral wishes across Essex and Suffolk.
More and more people are choosing to plan their own funeral in advance. This includes deciding what the ceremony will be like. You may have a clear idea of where you’d like the ceremony to take place, and what music or readings you’d like. You might also want to write your own eulogy and farewell.
I’ll work with you to create a ceremony that reflects your life, your values, and your wishes. I’ll provide you with a document that you can keep, which can be updated over time. If anything changes, I’ll send you a revised version so everything is up to date.
If you’d like to talk things through or ask any questions, please do not hesitate to get in touch. There’s no pressure or obligation.
Call me on 07812 371590 or fill out my enquiry form.
“Di guided me with such care as I set out my wishes for the funeral I’d like when my time comes. Her kindness made the task feel simple and natural. It comforts me to know my wife and children will be spared the burden of arrangements and free to support one another. I’ve even tucked in a few light-hearted tales, which I hope will bring a smile amidst the sadness.”
It’s becoming more and more common, especially for those who want to ease the pressure on their loved ones or make sure the ceremony reflects who they really are. Some people do it as part of their will or life admin, others simply find peace of mind in knowing it’s sorted.
Anyone can plan ahead. It’s not about age, it’s about having a say in how you’re remembered. I’ve worked with people of all ages who wanted to put their wishes down on paper, either for peace of mind or as part of a bigger conversation with family.
Keep a printed copy somewhere safe and let someone close to you know where it is. It’s a good idea to share it with your next of kin or whoever will be handling things when the time comes. If you have a will or any end-of-life documents, mention the plan there too. I’ll also keep a secure copy myself.
Pre-planning is about putting your wishes down clearly so your family knows exactly what you’d like. Wherever possible, I will lead the ceremony myself. But if I’m no longer practicing or unavailable for any reason, we’ll discuss what should happen instead to make sure everything is in place.
