Di Gilbranch, helping families say farewell to their loved ones across Essex and Suffolk.
The ceremony can be conducted totally by the graveside, at a cemetery chapel or maybe at the Funeral Director’s premises, and then a short time at the graveside. Burial ceremonies can take different forms depending on what feels right for you and your family.
I’ve supported families at cemeteries, natural burial grounds, woodland sites, and traditional churchyards all over Essex and Suffolk. Wherever it takes place, the focus is always on creating a goodbye that feels thoughtful, respectful and right for the person you’re remembering.
I’ll work with you to get the tone and structure just right. That might mean including music or a reading, a few words of reflection, or simply some time for quiet goodbyes. I’m here to help you create something that feels right and reflects your wishes.
If you’d like to talk things through or ask any questions, please do not hesitate to get in touch. There’s no pressure or obligation.
Call me on 07812 371590 or fill out my enquiry form.
“Hi Di, a quick note to thank you for the lovely written memory of the service. Everyone said how perfect it was and that Dad would have been proud. Thank you for all your help and guidance.”
Absolutely. I’ll work with you to shape the ceremony from start to finish, not just the parts I speak. That includes the overall structure, timings, music cues, and making sure everyone involved feels supported. On the day, I’ll gently lead the ceremony from beginning to end, or simply deliver my part if that’s what you prefer.
Yes, whether you want to write your own words, speak on the day, or have me read something on your behalf, I’ll guide and support you. Some people want help refining their wording, while others just need reassurance that what they’ve written is right. Whatever you need, I’m here to help.
I do. After the ceremony, I’ll send you a printed or digital copy of the full script to keep, including readings, tributes, and anything personal that was included. It can be a comforting thing to return to later, or share with those who couldn’t attend.
Yes. If required, I can get in touch with the cemetery or burial ground team in advance to confirm logistics, timings and anything we need to be aware of on the day.
The setting often shapes the tone. Woodland burials tend to be quieter, more reflective, and less formal than traditional cemeteries. I’ll help adapt the structure so it feels right for the environment, whether that means gathering at the graveside or allowing a little more time for reflection in natural surroundings. You can find more about these ceremonies on the Woodland Burials page.
Yes, I’m happy to include elements that reflect the beliefs, heritage, or culture of the person being remembered, whether that’s a prayer, reading, or symbolic gesture. I’ll always check with you beforehand to make sure everything feels respectful and fitting.
