It is an honour for me, as a celebrant, to construct a short ceremony to reflect on the life of the deceased, either by scattering in a favourite spot or by interment.

Whatever your wishes, I will be able to help with a memorial service or to lead a ceremony of remembrance as you scatter or inter the ashes.

I’ve led ceremonies throughout Essex, Suffolk and the surrounding areas, ensuring each one reflects the unique life of the person being remembered.

Here’s how I support families planning a scattering or interment of ashes ceremony:

I’ll meet with you in person, often at your home, to discuss your wishes and what would feel most meaningful for the ceremony.
You’ll receive a full copy of the ceremony in advance, so there’s time to review and make any changes.
I can help with tributes, readings or anything else you’d like to include.
On the day, I’ll lead the ceremony with care, offering you support throughout.

“Di recently helped us celebrate the life of my aunt. She turned a difficult time into a warm experience, gently guiding us to remember her with joy. On the day, she was professional, polite and respectful — delivering the ceremony with sincerity and kindness.”

— Family of Mrs H.
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FAQs About Ashes Ceremonies

Do we need permission to scatter ashes in a public place?

Generally, yes. If you're considering a public place like a park, woodland, or beach, it’s always best to check with the landowner or local authority. Most are understanding if the scattering is discreet and respectful, but formal permission may still be required in some areas.

What’s the difference between scattering ashes and interring them?

Scattering means releasing the ashes into the air, water, or over land. Interment means burying them, either in a container or directly into the earth. Both can be done in a meaningful way, and I’ll help shape a short ceremony that fits whichever approach feels right for you.

Can the ashes ceremony be as simple as just a few quiet words?

Absolutely. Some families want a short moment of reflection, while others include readings, music, or symbolic gestures. Whether it’s just a couple of sentences or something more structured, I’ll help you find words that feel appropriate and comforting.

Will you stay with us during the scattering or interment itself?

Yes, I’ll be there with you, whether it’s a small group or just a few of you. I’ll lead the short ceremony, say the agreed words, and stay with you throughout to support the moment. If you'd prefer privacy at the very end, I’ll always respect that too.

Scattering or Interment of Ashes